Monday, November 28, 2011

My Sunday With Santa!


I love the Christmas Season

*hot coco*
*reading and blogging by the fireplace*
*beautiful lights and Xmas Trees*
*and lots of SHOPPING!!!*

My Sunday went something like this...
...Santa waved "Hello-o-o-o!" to me as I was riding up the escalator at the mall...

...I love the mall by my house - The Glendale Galleria - <~~ check out alllll the stores they have...on 3 floors...with a Macy's, a Nordstrom, AND EVEN TARGET!!!! haha I bet Kandee Johnson would love to live here :)

...So then we walked across the street to the Americana on Brand
it's so beautiful there...
*the tree is so tall, they have to bring it in with a crane*
...they even had a machine making snow bubbles ... It was a winter-wonderland with LA weather ... hahaha :)

...I went to Barnes & Noble ... I love to browse there and make a wishlist so when my friends n' family ask me what I want for the holidays, I actually have a suggestion for them ;)...

then my boyfriend took me to this part of the Americana...
and told me Santa is coming early this year!

Look what he got me!!! It's only thee coolest gadget!!! 
yup! this is the Apple iPad2

and I can't put it down. 

For the first time in years, I felt excited about something like I used to when I was a kid. 

I believe in Santa...Santa's spirit can spark happiness inside everyone! 

Happy Holidays, Cool gadgets, and lot's of love

Friday, November 25, 2011

This is how you do "BLACK FRIDAY!"

Check out these amazing deals I got for Black Friday
...and tips on how to get the most out of season savings at the mall!
Black Friday Deal #1 JC Penney Black Coat Regular $100 ... My price $25.00
Black Friday deal #2. Super soft flannel button down Reg. $34 Sale $12!
Black Friday deal #3.  Sheer Studded Blouse Reg $78 Sale $53!

Total Savings: $122.00~!!!!!!!!!!!!

Smartest Way to Shop this Holiday Season

-Set a budget and stick to it!!! - the whole point of a Sale is to spend less than regular. So if on a regular shopping trip you would spend $120, don't spend $300... you'll be overspending and buying things you probably dont NEED!
Try to buy the most things with your budget!

- Make a list!!! - Write down what you NEED, WHO you need to buy a gift for (holiday sales are a great time to buy and store gifts for bdays and xmas, lastly, write down what you WANT...prioritize accordingly!

-Have fun!!! don't ever do anything that will stress you out!

<3colorful fridays and happy holidays

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

It's My Birthday and I'll BLOG if I want tooooo!

Before my day gets crazy...I wanted to take a minute to blog about how I'm feeling today.
I feel so in love and so blessed. I love my supportive family, boyfriend, and friends.

Here are some of the things I've learned this year...
~I need to love myself before I can love another
~Stay in love n' light and the Universe will grant you unconditional love n' positivity
~Everyone looks prettier when they smile
~The 4 Agreements can change your life! 
~Anything is Possible! Just ask for it~!

...This has been an amazing year and I've learned sooo sooo much! So much so, that I'm inspired to write an interactive, self-help book.... 

....Want to know more and help me raise funds for publishing?

-Gotta go blow all 23 of my candles out! 
<3 scorpios and birthday love

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

I'm Writing My First Book!

I'm so excited to finally begin writing this book.

It's an interactive, self-help book and guide to a better YOU!

I'm running a little fund raiser to cover printing and publishing costs!

All who donate will receive special updates and exclusive activities to enhance health, wealth, happiness and LOVE in your life!

Please support me by visiting: MY PAGE


Saturday, November 12, 2011

Get a Moldavite High! A powerful stone more rare than DIAMONDS! 20mill years old...

This is my new Moldavite Pendant!!!

This is one, unique, stone...

20 Million years ago, a powerful meteor shower caused the Moldau Valley of the current Czech Republic to be covered in these green tektites (small, green, glass-like deposits).

This stone costs $20/gram!!!! I paid over $10 for this little piece (its LITTLE).

But, the healing & metaphysical properties of this stone is amazing! I get a high from wearing it. I am very float-y (haha! :) and super-connected to my spiritual self. 

Other benefits of Moldavite:
*Harmony to Marital Relationships
*Releasing those which no longer serve you

Meditating with Moldavite

Moldavite is a great stone to use while meditating to connect with ascended masters, spirit guides, or higher powers. However, due to its strong ungrounding properties, use a tourmaline or hematite stone to keep you grounded for safety! 

let me know how moldavite works for you! ... 

wanna know where to buy it? 

Yelp Search: Metaphysical Store in your area and call the stores to see who has it. Make sure you touch the stone and "feel it out" before paying for it. If it doesn't resonate well with you, DONT BUY IT!

Alien connections and Love for all,
<3 NeenaJay

Sunday, November 6, 2011

My Life These Days

Life is IS GREAT!

I'm discovering new ways of meditating and I love it.
This picture says ALOT about my life ... I've got my Nike gym tank on, I'm drumming to the beat of my heart,  I've got feathers in my hair and my semi precious stone bracelet on my hand.

I've become very interested in stones and their benefits. I love meditating with different stones every day and feeling their energies. (I'll write a blog soon about all my stones)

I've begun a manifestation activity where I will manifest my dance studio in 7 days.
I read a specific question i.e. What are your beliefs and ethics in business? and then I meditate upon the question. I then spend 10 minutes writing down my answers and at the end of the week, I will recap and write a list of EXACTLY how I want my dance studio to be. And although on the 7th day I may not open my doors, I WILL have an exact idea of what I want and how I want it and then I'll use the "Law of Attraction" to my benefit correctly.

After watching the movie "The Secret," (if you haven't watched it, Netflix has it for free) I chose to do one of the things that many of the speakers in the movie had done....

copy and print this if you want to attract $1,000,000 too!

1: I got a $1 bill and changed it to a ONE MILLION DOLLAR BILL...hahaha :)
2: I taped it to my light switch cover (so I can see it several times a day)
3: I am staying open allowing the money angels and fairies to bring me this money however the Universe pleases to. 


Sunday, October 9, 2011


So part of my journey is meditation. I meditate every morning with my white candle and stones. I use a grounding stone and either my Amethyst or my Lapis Lazuli for my 3rd eye chakra. I am in search of my spurt guide(s). I met one of them who's name is Teresa. She gave me a white piece of cloth. White symbolizes protection. Her only message to me was that 'everything will be ok.'

I will try to connect with Teresa everyday and stay open to any messages she wants to give me throughout the day/night.

YouTube has some great guided mediation techniques to connect with your spirit guide. Check it out.

The excitement of the unknown, <3 Neena Jay
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Thursday, October 6, 2011

My New Best Friend! #Journaling

I can tell her all my thoughts, all my visions, all my out-of-body experiences and SHE WON'T THINK I'M CRAZY.... 

You can have a best friend like mine too....

I've found a new love in journaling. That's not even a "real" word...but it is...its the act of writing in your journal...journaling.

I got this journal from target for $10 and the buddha pen from Que Linda Boutique (let me know if you want one too...I think they're gonna start online sales soon!)

Write everything in your journal! Carry it with you always....
...have it in front of you while you meditate and scribble down an visions you have, or things you hear, or any out-of-the-ordinary experiences. This way you can go back and track your intuitive growth. 

Keep the journal bedside and write down the first thing that pops up in your mind in the morning.
Cool exercise: before you go to sleep, ask a question...or ask for clarity regarding a problem, then write down the first thing in your head when you wake up ;)

Write down your dreams....

Write anything...just write...and doodle...and scribble...
...let your subconscious mind take over and it will all make sense one day!

pages written with love...from the light heart... <3 NeenaJay

My Intuitive Journey

in·tu·i·tion  (nt-shn, -ty-)
a. The act or faculty of knowing or sensing without the use of rational processes; immediate cognition. See Synonyms at reason.
b. Knowledge gained by the use of this faculty; a perceptive insight.
2. A sense of something not evident or deducible; an impression.

The past few months of my life have been very interesting. I have been living in a highly intuitive state, and synchronicity has knocked on my door more than once! 

I always knew there was a unknown realm ... that's an oxy moron...but ever since I was little, I had unexplained experiences.  And with my fascination of stones, energy, and tarot, my fascination about psychic abilities grew. 

So here I am... on this expand my intuitive abilities and change my life.

Come on! Meditate with me...write with me...explore with me! For all the answer are within.

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Love Bites - Do you really wanna give him a taste of his own medicine?

"Give him a taste of his own medicine" ...? Really? 

Yesterday, I overheard a mother giving her daughter relationship "advice." Boy! Do I wish I could've saved her!!! Her boyfriend had been neglecting her and she felt like she'd been put on the back burner. This girls mother said "Well, give him a taste of his own medicine and do the same to him." I was appalled!!! What kind of crap is that?!?!

Hello people!! Don't you know that snakes are immune to their own poison? If a guy is mistreating you...and you mistreat him back... 1) Its NOT going to hurt him like it hurts you, 2) You are further poisoning yourself by doing something you don't like done to you & 3) You will further justify his actions by joining in the act.

The First of the Four Agreements is to speak impeccably! You must speak to yourself, and your partner with integrity and truth. Come from the heart and avoid sinful or manipulative comments.
~ Look inside yourself and find happiness within. Are you feeling neglected because you rely on him to entertain and satisfy you? Then tell him, sincerely, how you feel.

The 2nd Agreement is "don't take anything personally."
Are you questioning yourself? Are you second guessing your value? STOP! Remember that NOTHING others say or do is because of you. It is their own projection of their poisoned "dream" (mental state).
~Find the light within you. Know your worth. Do not attach pain or emotion to his stories, actions, or reactions. 

The 3rd Agreement states, "don't make assumptions."
Don't assume ANYTHING! clear your head and heart of everything.
~Fill yourself with light from whatever diving being you believe in. Communicate clearly what it is you are feeling, but don't give him the burden of making things better. This is ONLY up to you. You have the right to tell him, of course speaking impeccably (without sin or manipulation), how you feel and what you would like changed, and you ALSO HAVE THE RIGHT to not agree with the current relationship. It is better to be clear and walk away, then to live in a space where the energy is foggy. Fog prevents good communication, which prevents understanding, which strains love, respect, trust, and perception. 

Finally, the 4th agreement is "always do your best!"
If you always do your best in applying agreements 1-3, you will no longer second guess yourself. You will no longer resent yourself, judge yourself, or make yourself suffer. Because every time you look back on a situation, you will know you have done your best, and if the other person cannot join you on your AGREED path, then this person can separate from you.

Who knows what the future holds?

Always doing my best, <3 NeenaJay 

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

The Four Agreements - A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom: Don Miguel Ruiz

If you are looking to change your life...this is the place to start! 

This book has changed my life!
The author does a great job of giving you step by step instructions on how to break old agreements we have made with ourselves, and acknowledge and make these 4 new agreements that will lead to an overall better life.

In this book, Don Miguel Ruiz shares his knowledge of the Toltec Wisdom People.
The book has 5 chapters, totaling 150 pages.

The Four Agreements:

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse, and regret.

On my path to personal freedom, <3 NeenaJay

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Cleanse and Energize Your Stones- Full Moon Tonight!

Tonight is a full moon! Get out all your semi precious stones (jewelry, decor, etc) and precious metals and leave them by a window sill to be cleansed and energized by the moon light. The early morning sunrise will charge the stones and expand their frequencies so they can benefit you to their full potential. 

My favorite stones:

Rose Quartz - Love

Citrine - Money

Friday, September 9, 2011



This phrase has meant more to me in the past weeks than ever in my life. 
Our society has poisoned us with many superficial beliefs about relationships. I'm not just talking about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, but family, school, work, and relationships with friends too. 

In order to maintain ANY healthy relationship, you need to have self love.

Love yourself. Search and realize what makes you happy and devote time to your SELF. Understand what makes you happy and make a promise to yourself to keep YOU happy. 

Meditate....and once you've reached a clear state of mind, be open to the the infinite light. The infinite light may be God to some, Allah to others; to me, its just the divine light. Be open to that, and allow for the light to seep into your soul and fill you with your own love. 

When you come from love n' light, all darkness, ego and negativity will weed itself out of your path. This may include drugs, bad friends, bad habits, etc. The possibilities are endless. Just stay in love...and in light with yourself.

From this SELF-LOVE stems self-respect, self-confidence, and self-value. When you are full of these positive characteristics, you can maintain happy relationships and will protect yourself from needless suffering. When you love yourself, you wont aimlessly gauge if and how much others love you. You will only accept LOVE in its highest and purest form. When you respect yourself, others will respect you. And those who dont  will veer off your path.

Come from others...and always chose the path that shines light on your heart!

Love n' light <3NeenaJay

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Neena Jay is BACK! Better than ever!

After a little time-off, I am back to bring all my readers amazing articles, personal stories, and exercises to help you improve the quality of your life!!!!

Dont forget to add me on facebook at

And follow me on twitter at!/neenajay

And stay tuned for an amazing post in less than an hour! 

Off I go!

love n' light, NeenaJay

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Do you ever draw tattoos on yourself?

Ever since I was a kid...I loved body art! finally old enough to get my own, I got a couple pieces...But i STILL sometimes like to grab my tattoo liner and draw a temporary tattoo. 

I've been really into feathers lately...I'm even thinking of buy a pair of White Canvas TOMS and drawing feathers on it! How cool would that be? It'd be totally customized. 

                                            I used the trooper tattoo liner by Kat Von D

Here's a pic of my one of my "real' tattoos...haha 
It's a lotus flower with an evil eye in the middle which will protect me from harm, a rosary that symbolizes faith and higher powers and of course, the scorpio symbol...cuz baby I'm a stinger!

tattoos, real n' fake, color, or black n' white <3 NeenaJay

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Electric Daisy Carnival 2011 Las Vegas - EDC Must-haves

t-15 hours 'till EDC Las Vegas!!!!!!  I've been getting a lot of requests to do a EDC must-haves here it is. 

Here's everything you'll need to have a fun and safe experience at the 2011 Electric Daisy Carnival and all future music festivals.

1. Fanny-pack! You're gonna need a fanny-pack so you can be hands-free and fist-pump the night away..haha (and you wont have to worry about setting down your belongings anywhere unsafe) oh! AND ... backpacks might be easily accessed by people in the crowd without you knowing. You WILL get bumped into... A LOT!
..and you may not notice if someone is trying to steal something from your backpack.

this is a great buy from Target at only $16.99 ... its a great dark brown leather that will work great for both guys and girl! **It even has a secret zipper on the back side (closer to ur tummy that will come in handy)
~You want to put your ID card, cash (dont bring a lot, $50 should be enough: keep emergency money in the car) and car keys in this secret zipper so no one can access it without you feeling it!

2. Your gonna' want a mini mister fan to stay cool. They sell ones like this at Sport Chalet.
these are awesome cuz they have a skinny frame that wont be too bulky in ur fanny pack but you can also clip it to your pants! Just fill with water and turn it on to spray a little hydration onto yourself. Vegas is HOT!!!

3. Grab 2-3 Granola Bars (home made are better) here's a recipe
food is expensive and lines are LONGGGG *this little snack will hold you or ur friend off for a 'bit.

4. Now the fun! We all LOVE glowsticks but they can get expensive... here's a 99cent option.
All the 99cent stores now have 12 pack tubes of bracelet and mouth sized glow stick

Most importantly...have the numbers of everyone in your group, at least one parent or other emergency contact of everyone in your group (someone who won't be at EDC), constantly drink water, dont go to the bathroom alone, if someone looks like they're dehydrated...PLEASE help them, and most importantly, dont succumb to peer pressure to take drugs. You do NOT know what it could be laced with. You don't know how your body will react to it... be everything you can to make sure you and your friends have an amazing euphoric experience. Let the music get you high.
...return safely to your family n' friends at home so we can all party again together next time!

fanny packs, glow sticks and fist-pumps! <3 NeenaJay

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

New Age Wellness and Healing - Manifest Destiny - Vision Boards

Hey Guys! I have a fun new activity for you to do...and if you're a big 'zine reader like me...this is gonna be SUPER fun. ....ever heard the quote "seeing is believing"...? well it's true! ... and as it goes with the laws of manifesting your destiny...if you keep a clear and detailed picture of what you're trying to can attract exactly what you want from the universe... 

...this is a technique I learned from my life coach Tracy Crossley who has helped me grow oh-so-much emotionally and spiritually. (find her here ~~> on facebook or on twitter @TracyCrossley

Most everything in life depends on visualization...."see it to believe it" RIGHT?!

A vision board is a compilation of pictures that express EXACTLY what you want to achieve in life.
I recommend making two (2) boards: 1 for short term goals ... and 1 for long term goals.

So lets start... Here's what you'll need:

1: A poster board ... as big or as small as you want (you're gonna place this somewhere that you will see it several times a day so make sure it'll fit in that space)
2: A glue stick & scissors ... to cut & paste all that you want in life
3: Magazines, print-outs, newspapers ... there is no limit to what graphics you can use...if they give you that ooey-gooey feeling inside; it works!
4: Crayons n' Markers: to add some personal details to your vision

Let's Start!!!

Grab a magazine...or any material you're about to cut up...Grab your handy-dandy scissors...get ready...get set...CUT!!! cut out anything you want.... see a beautiful country-style home? is that what you want? CUT IT!
...see a shiny red corvette you'd want?...CUT IT! get it? haha... keep cutting out pictures that describe the destiny you want to manifest for yourself. 

Note* Keep your goals realistic (i.e. humans will never be able to fly on earth ... our gravity won't allow it)

here are a few samples of vision boards... 


now ...paste them on your poster ... go ahead... there is NO strategy... whatever makes sense in that head of yours is fair game.

you can add more...subtract unnecessary stuff...and perfect it to ur liking...

you done? comes more fun... look at ur vision board... embrace it...feel it....feel yourself riding in that new 'vette. If you're into meditation...meditate it! LIVE IT, LOVE IT, CREATE IT!

Now place it somewhere that your eye will catch it several times a day. ex: at your desk, in the bathroom, on your closet mirror, etc... take a picture of it...make it ur computer and cell phone wallpaper...indulge in your vision baby! 

Each and every night before going to bed...look at it and go over every detail.... and email me when you attain what you've posted on the board... ;)